A little life update

Hello again! Long time no see, no talk, and no blogging. 
It’s been a really, really long time since I last wrote anything on this blog. I suddenly remembered that I actually have a blog. Haha. Sorry for abandoning you for so long.

A lot has happened over the years.
With technology getting fancier and social media taking over our lives, I eventually found other places to be dramatic and alay on the internet. So, naturally, I forgot about this blog. But... I think I want to come back here. Somehow, this still feels like the safest place. I can be as alay as I want and nobody probably cares. Or maybe nobody even remembers that this blog ever existed. Which is honestly even better. 

So, here we are. Here’s a little life update.

I started this blog when I was in high school. I was pretty active here during college, and there were still a few random posts hanging around when I first started working.

And now, here we are in 2026, and life has changed quite a bit.

I’m almost 34 now.
I’m married. My husband is a good man, although he can be annoying sometimes.
I have one child, a little boy who is ridiculously cute and adorable. (sayang Bebirom banyak banyak).
I also have two cats, Mengdud and Boyen. Those are their nicknames, by the way. I adopted them back in 2022, and somehow they are still here, running the household like they own the place.

I don’t live in Tangerang anymore. I’ve moved around Jaktim, then moved to Jaksel, and eventually ended up settling somewhere around perbatasan South Tangerang - Bogor hehe.

These days, I work in Lebak Bulus, Jaksel. It takes about an hour from home if I ride my motorcycle. By car, it can take 2–3 hours. Oh, and there was one time when it took FOUR HOURS just to get office from home because I was completely stuck in the Cirendeu traffic. And yes, that was one way. Multiply that by two and you can imagine how much of my life I spend on the road. Such a horror yah kehidupan dewasa ini.

For the past month or so, I’ve also been really into going to the gym. Well, “into” might be a strong word. I’m actually kind of forced to. After having a baby, becoming a mom, and getting older (whether I like it or not), I started feeling like my body needs a little more attention.

There are also so many things I used to love doing that I barely do anymore. 
Going to concerts.
Taking trips out of town.
Kulineran.
Randomly going places just because I feel like it.
I don’t really do those things much anymore. But that’s okay. I’m slowly learning that everything has its own season.

There was a time when I could stay up late, go anywhere, do anything, and somehow still function the next morning. But life is different now, and I guess I’m different too.

Well, I think that’s enough of a life update for now. There are probably a lot more things I could talk about, but maybe I’ll save them for another post. 

I think I want to start journaling here again.
Maybe not regularly. Maybe sometimes.
But whenever I feel like writing something down, I’ll come back here.

So, see you around, little blog.

Luv luv ♡

Winda